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In the textbook
I'm starting with the background stuff today.This handy diagram is from the American Dental Association (ADA). I'll write out the gist of this in some sentences in case your brain turns off when you see lines of numbers.
Almost all babies are born with their 20 primary teeth already formed and waiting to appear. Teething usually starts around 6 months, and by age 3, all 20 of the primary teeth have erupted. Often, the two lower "central incisors" are first to make an appearance, followed by the two upper "central incisors." Usually teething happens fairly symmetrically, with both the right and left side of a particular tooth emerging at the same time. Also, a lot of babies start getting their first molars before their canines have cut through. I don't know why.
Let me be frank and tell you that I am just now learning the names of these teeth.
At the office
So now that you know the basics about what is supposed to happen, let me be clear: it never happens this way. I tell parents all the time that, when it comes to the timing of teething, I can almost more reliably count on babies not following the norm. One thing that I do see consistently is that every parent thinks their baby is teething at 3 or 4 months. While, maybe, those teeth below the gumline are starting to move around, I have never seen an actual tooth erupt before 5 months. I've heard about it, but never seen it. It is true, though, that drooling peaks around 4 months for a variety of reasons: salivary glands are in high gear, babies are putting everything in their mouths making salivary glands even more active, and they don't quite get the swallowing-without-sucking thing, so most of that saliva comes right out the front.
On the flip side of thinking teething is beginning really early, I see lots of kiddos who don't pop a tooth at all until late in their first year, or even after their first birthday. No big deal. I wouldn't make a fuss about it unless the kid is around 15-18 months and hasn't gotten a tooth yet, in which case, I might refer them to a dentist just to get things checked out.
Speaking of the dentist, I just read that the ADA recommends the first dental visit as soon as the first tooth erupts. Um. I don't know if I could ever convince a parent to bring their 6-month-old to the dentist to get two teeth checked out. I haven't tried, though. Most Pediatric dentists I know want to see a kid sometime between 18 and 24 months. I think that's a little more likely. The ADA also recommends cleaning those teeth as soon as they appear with a soft brush and some water. I do tell parents to do this. At least daily, the teeth should be wiped clean, and preferably after any feeding. The ADA also says no fluoride in the toothpaste until after age 2, but I know there are some kid's toothpastes out there that have a small amount of fluoride that I think is ok as soon as the kid learns how to spit it out. I will check into that.
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Let's talk about signs of teething first. If you read any study about teething, it will emphatically tell you that the process of teething causes nothing other than tooth eruption. But every mom (and I think every Pediatrician) knows that teething can come along with lots of other symptoms. Lots of kids have a little runny nose, and lots are more drooly than normal (hm. spellcheck is not trying to correct drooly--weird). Because of all this increased spit and snot, sometimes some looser stools are a result. And let's not forget, teething HURTS. Because of this pain, babies might have their hands in their mouths more, or they may play with their ears because of "referred" teething pain (referred pain is pain that happens somewhere other than its source). Babies are for sure more fussy, sometimes want to eat less, and can develop a low grade fever (I say nothing higher than 100.5 can be attributed to teething alone).
You are probably well versed in the possible remedies for teething pain. But let's just review them for fun. Pain reliever/fever reducer is ok to use. Anecdotaly (and maybe scientifically), ibuprofen helps a bit more for teething pain than does acetaminophen. You can buy things to rub on their gums, but I warn parents not to use any numbing stuff if baby is about to eat or sleep--they can swallow it and then have trouble managing saliva or food. The trend now is moving away from recommending benzocaine-containing numbing products at all, due to other potential side effects. We also don't recommend teething tablets because some contain alcohol or an ingredient called bella donna, which is an herb that has dangerous side effects. The old stand-bys for teething relief seem to work the best: cold teething rings, or a cold washcloth, or rubbing the gums with your finger.
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A quick story: One time I was in the emergency room late at night because a family member was in a car accident. The nurse found out I was a Pediatric PA, and she asked me what to do "about molars." Apparently her two-year-old was cutting some back teeth and was having some trouble. Well, I thought she said "moles." It was very late at night. I looked at her, confused, and replied something like "Uh. I don't know. Uh. The dermatologist could take them off or something." Brilliant. It wasn't until later that I realized what she actually said. I don't think the dermatologist would be very happy if I referred a patient to them who was having teething pain.
At the Buck house
When Jonathan's first two teeth started to appear, I cried. I was totally caught off guard and totally sentimental about it. He got his first teeth at 5.5 months--WAY earlier than I expected given my knowledge about teething and the fact that his parents were late teethers. It was only after I could actually see those little teeth popping through that I realized he had been having all the signs of them for weeks. Way to be observant, mama.![]() |
| This was Jonathan's first response when I said "Show me your teeth." Thanks for cooperating, son. |
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| OK that's more like it. |
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| Oh how I love that toothy grin! |
And one final note: we do clean Jonathan's teeth just about every night. We should probably do it more often, but I feel it's a success when I just remember at bedtime. We use some Orajel-brand teeth cleaner. It has a little blue brush that you put on your finger and then rub the teeth with some gel stuff. I don't even know what's in the gel. I don't even know if it does anything. It's probably a total marketing scheme--water probably works just fine. But isn't that the story of mommying--50% actually doing the right thing, and 50% thinking you are doing the right thing. Actually, there's probably a large percentage in there of having no idea what to do, but those are thoughts for another time...
And, if you haven't already, check out the disclaimer.
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That's all I got!
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EIGHT teeth?! Holy cow that is a lot. Love how his little smile is changing, and love even more that I'm going to see it in person soon!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteLove you, Lea! Great post!
Kate
Excellent post my friend! I'm going to "refer" my readers to it right now! Love you!
ReplyDeleteWhen Ethan would bite me, I would (gently) flick his cheek. It worked pretty well. Man, I had forgotten about the biting. Talk about making you gun-shy! What do you think about the teething necklaces? Made of amber, I think? We just used Tylenol/ibuprofen...I was just curious what you think. Great post!
ReplyDeletehaha gun shy is definitely a good description :) I have not heard of teething necklaces... I will Google them tomorrow! You always have good things to bring up--thanks for keeping me on my toes! love you friend
Deleteugh Lea I think you just single handedly saved my life with this post.
ReplyDeletehaha friend I think you just summed up teething in one word: UGH. Hope Luke is doing ok!
DeleteI came to your blog from a friend and love the medical monday! This might be too big of a topic but what about sleep/naps/schedules? And especially letting your kid cry when they just need to sleep? And night time feelings? Ok that is probably enough for a whole year of medical mondays but just thought I would throw it out there (as a sleep deprived mom)!
ReplyDeleteThanks!
These are such great ideas! I so appreciate you reading and commenting. I'd love to do some posts in the future about sleep stuff and definitely crying it out. haha you are talking to another sleep-deprived mama--I still have a lot to learn when it comes to good sleep schedules! Maybe I should just have a discussion post where we can all learn from each other!
DeleteThat would be feeding, not feelings, although those are important too!
ReplyDeletehaha maybe more important in some cases ;)
DeleteI came over here from e's blog, and I'm loving this series! I'm a dental hygienist so I particularly enjoyed this post. We tell patients not to use fluoridated kid's toothpaste until the child is good at spitting, just so they don't get too much fluoride. If you fill a cup with water and mark the water level, then have them swish and spit back into the cup, you should be able to tell if they are swallowing anything. Once they are good with the spitting, fluoridated toothpaste is fine.
ReplyDeleteCallie I love that advice about spitting :) I will have to share that one with patients. Always appreciate you reading and always appreciate the tips!!
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